It is not your purpose on EARTH to judge others. GROW your own SOUL, love your own being and radiate your goodness through light and energy.
Fear not what awaits you in this lifetime, but embrace it openly and GROW with it.
Everyday is a day of learning, growing, and developing your true inner being. This is how it should be viewed, and YES it does take WORK. Human life can be tasking but someday you will see that it has all been worthy of the hard work.